Your Possibility Stone is your primary tool to shift into and hold the identity of 'Possibilitator'.

Your Possibility Stone is a pain-in-the-ass reminder that at any moment, no matter what is happening, you have the choice to originate your speaking, thinking, feeling, and actions in your Survival-Box Defense Mechanisms or in your Bright Principles.

EXPERIMENT: For a week, every time you are faced with a problem, physically hold your Possibility Stone between you and the problem. No matters whether the problem is a physical (you broke your friend' smartphone screen), intellectual (you are in an argument), emotional (someone has just projected on you that you are persecuting them), energetic (someone keeps trying to get into your personal bubble of space), archetypal (you block every offer you are given to serve through your Archetypal Lineage).

Physically hold your Possibility Stone between you and the problem, and let it be a portal to give you 10 different ways you could shift out of it being a problem situation.

List the 10 possibilities into your Beep! Book.

Choose two of the possibilities and try them.

Your Beep! Book is your self-made Map of the path you've walked, the traps you've fell into, the cliff you've jumped, the detour you've taken to be exactly where you are right now.

As Trainer, you are bridge builder. Your Beep! Book notes are the design of the bridge that you've built for yourself. A bridge that now could be used by a entire generation of edgeworkers to get to where you are. Never undermine the value of your notes!

Treat your Beep! Book the way Christopher Columbus look upon his outline of the 'New Worlds' (they were new worlds for him and his fellow Europeans): as world changing (thought)-maps!

EXPERIMENT: Five days a week for an entire month, write 3 pages about your exploration at the edge of the outer borders of your known territory. This can range from short stories, thoughtmaps, drawings, insights, distinctions and its unfoldings, a process, to questions and its possible answers, ...

How can you ask your clients to go to the edge of their Box if you are not willing to do the same? Your clients are inspired by what you do, not what you say.

Adventuring yourself to the edge of your Box - for real, not in your mind - materialize as experiments. You cannot know what could happen at the edge of your Box, otherwise it wouldn't be an edge. The only way to discover how it could go is by experimenting.

A big hint that you are Trainer, experimenting is one of the ecstasy of your life. If it is not yet, you can train yourself in experimental ecstasy. I promise its Fun!

EXPERIMENT: Invent Your Own Possibilitator Expansion Experiments

Experimenting for a Possibilitator is as natural as wanting to drink water in the hot dry dusty desert. Experimenting goes without questioning. The questioning comes from your Gremlin.

Every day for the rest of your life, invent and do one experiment per day until it becomes a second nature. Register your Matrix Points for this Experiment after doing one conscious intentional transformation experiment per day for seven days in a row.

Experiments can vary in size, time, space, attention and resources. Here are some sample Experiments of the kind we mean:

• Eat your morning porridge with a fork.
• Knock on your neighbor's doors and collect one non-physical thing from each of them until you have 10 things (such as a belief, a story, a conclusions, etc...).
• Learn a poem by heart and find a valuable way to recite it once a day.
• Create a whole new gameworld.
• Draw the flag of your nanonation.
• Appreciate the quality of your boss to them out loud at a meeting.
• Vacuum your place in less than 5 minutes.
• Light a candle in your reading space, etc...

There are so many possible experiments at every time of the day. Commit to doing at least one each day.

You can, of course, do the S.P.A.R.K. Experiments alone. You will learn so much.

However, if you do S.P.A.R.K. Experiments in a weekly online or offline S.P.A.R.K. Study Group, your whole Team will learn so much, AND... you will also learn about Spaceholding and Space Navigating. After you have delivered 5 S.P.A.R.K. Study Group meetings, please register your Matrix Points at StartOver.xyz.

Thoroughly doing SPARK Experiments weekly applies discipline to your commitment, building up Trainer Muscles in 5 Bodies.

The purpose of your 3Cell is to encourage Authentic Evolution. As a Trainer, you cannot do it all by yourself. The lone-wolf strategy has maybe work until now but if you are reading this website, you you have found its limit.

As a Trainer, probably more than you think, you need encouragement, you need a team that has your back, you need a team that will give your honest, clear, evolutionary feedback emerging from their commitment to your own evolution and not for their Gremlin.

Experiment TRSKILLS.06: Create a 3Cell of Trainers - be them Possibility Management Trainer or from a different context (preferably a context where initiation and transformation is at the center). Make a WhatsApp (or Telegram, Signal, Facebook) group.

Commit to them.

Connect to them.

Be clear with them.

This might announce the start of your new gameworld!

Becoming Present is about becoming more of You right now, and now, and now.

Experiment TRSKILLS.05:

Your attention is your most valuable resource. Without having your attention back, you cannot have access to your other resources.

As a Trainer, you need to have taken back your attention from the dazzling storyworlds that modern culture is trying to sell you at the fastest rate possible.

The storyworlds of being cool, skinny, young, rich, and beautiful.

The storyworlds of resentment, low drama, being right, or making wrong.

The storyworlds of 'I need money to live', ' I have to do something to have value for others', 'I can do it by myself'.

Experiment TRSKILLS.07:

1) For the first part of the experiment, get your Beep! Book and write a (long) list of the common things that unconsciously hijacked your attention. Find example of what capture your attention here: http://yourattention.mystrikingly.com/#common-things. Write in details, what, how often, how long, ...

2) Circle 5 of those attention eating things that you would like to take your attention back from.

3) For the next 5 weeks, take back your attention from those 5 things, one per week. During the first week, choose one of the 5 thing. Notice and catch yourself when you are giving your attention to it. When you catch yourself, pause. Really pause. Make a different decision. Put your attention on something else. For example, what you are trying to numb by letting your attention be hijacked.

Remind yourself to Observe Yourself

Get yourself a reminder - a bracelet, an alarm, a pin, a notification on your computer, a post-it - that says 'Self-Observation'. Every time, you see it/hear it, position your observe outside of yourself. It feels like someone is looking over your shoulder. BEWARE: this observer is absolutely neutral. If you are judging yourself, you are not observing yourself.

See how long you can keep doing what you were doing and observe yourself at the same time.

Self-observation is a muscle like your attention or keeping your center. Muscle only get stronger if you train them. This experiment is about training you neutral self-observation muscle.

Make a list of 50 characteristics of your Box.

1) Go to the 18 Boxes bubble and find out which of the 18 Boxes your Box is designed on. Your Box can be a clear design on one Box or can have been inspired by different ones.

2) Make a list of 50 characteristics of your Box design right now (your Box has probably already changed while doing evolutionary work). Your Box characteristics are not bad or good. Being aware of them gives your choice about them.

All of us has four brains. However, for most of us, they are not balanced. You have one brain that is dominant. Your dominant brain determines what it important, how to connect, how to relate, what are the different steps for a project, what is at the center of the projects, what are the values, ... It's a filter through which to look at the world.

It could be that you are at war with one or your teammate because you don't know which dominant brain you have and which dominant they have. It is so simply revolutionary to carry this distinction. It save my life more than once!

EXPERIMENT:

To discover which dominant brain you are, pick one object next to you, any object and look at it. Pay attention to what are your first impulses (not more than 3 impulses!) towards it. What comes to you first in relation to that object?

I just did the experiment with someone. I threw him a pen and asked him: 'What are you first impulses towards the pen?'

He say: 'Teal'. I said: 'What?'. He: 'The color teal.' Me: 'Ah. Thank you.'

He say: 'I now want to put it back in the plastic bag where it belongs.'

I say: 'Thank you.' and ask him: 'What brains do you think you have?'

He say: 'Blue and yellow.'

I say: 'Yes. You telling me the color of the pen is your Blue Brain at work, and then wanting to put it back when it belongs, is your Yellow Brain at work.'

After you distinguish between your Box and your Being, the next step is to free your identity from your survival strategy - your Box.

Up to 18 years old, out of survival imperative, we identity ourselves with our Box. If we didn't do that, we would be too dangerous for our environment - and maybe for ourselves - that we would die. At 18 years, you should have had this choice. Most of us have not.

It doesn't matter, you get the choice now. The choice to have your identity be independent from your survival strategy. Great, how? By making a gap between 'you' and your survival strategy.

EXPERIMENT: Make a gap between 'you' and your survival strategy

The gap can be as thin as sheet of paper, just enough for your two parts to be independent from each other. After making your list of 50 Box survival characteristics, every time you notice one of the behaviors coming up. Pause. Don't try to make it go away. This is probably another one of your Box strategy : to not look at your Box strategy.

The ideas you think with are called memes.

Memes are like genes.

In the same way that genes are the smallest instructions for the design of your physical body...

memes are the smallest instructions for the design of your intellectual body... your mind.

Your memes are what you think with. When you think about what you think with you get a chance to start over.

Memetics is the study, detection, creation, transformation and use of memes.

EXPERIMENT:

Read all the scripts from memetics engineering sessions in the Memetics Bubble. Then ask another fellow trainer to have a session with you where you both will look at each other's memes using the principles of Memetics Engineering.

The point here is not to change the memes that you are using. The point of this experiment is to develop the skill to look closer and closer at the meme at work in your Box and in their Box.

You might, at some point, almost feel the memes engage and trigger a whole bunch of other memes. Quite thrilling!

The dichotomy Right/Wrong, Good/Bad installed in us from a too young age feeds from the Shadow World. If I'm right, then you are wrong. If this is good, then one day I could do something bad. On and on... It's terrifyingly so embedded in our language that most of us use it without even noticing it.

EXPERIMENT: Delete 'Right', 'Wrong', 'Good', 'Bad' from your vocabulary.

It takes unbroken attention to your speech to not pronounce those words. When you catch yourself saying it, you are sleeping. Stay awake. Keep your attention for as long as it takes. You will start to feel the pain of hearing that word in your and other's mouths.

Extra: you can do this also with words such as 'like', 'so', 'hum' or using 'you' instead of 'I'.

EXPERIMENT:

When faced with a problem between you and someone else.

EXPERIMENT: Consciously Use Your Power of Asking by Asking the Next Question.

Asking the next question in the space can take it either deeper, up or sideways into another space. Questions can be the steering wheel of the space deciding where are we going next.

• To bring a space deeper, question the assumptions the space is made of that the people in the space are maintaining. Look in the dark places.
• To bring a space up, question the Bright Principles, the purpose of the space (you would first have to find you is the spaceholder... it is not always the one that declare itself so. Keep your senses out!), or question who is awake and who is not.
• To bring the space sideways, ask a question for which the answer lays in a different space. Ask the question while being connected with people and take them with you onto the next adventure.

Practice those three types of questions. You don't ever have to be a victim of the quality of the space anymore.

Also practice noticing the next question the space needs - even you are not the one who says it. Notice where the space goes with every question.

Experiment TRSKILLS.20: Consciously Use Your Power of Choosing

The power of choosing for a Trainer is imminent. When faced with a client, there's often so many doors to open, so many golden keys. How to choose? Which one to choose? If you can't choose, you cannot support your client. They are paying you because they can't choose themselves.

By choosing one option, you have to grieve the lost of the opportunity to choose the other options. It is huge. You are in luck that you've learn how to feel and how to feel sad.

First, practice choosing with more anger than usual. This or that. Pasta or salad? Movie or book? Which movie? A phone or video call? Dress or pants? Walk or bike ride? This time or that time? You are face with choice all day long. Every time you are faced with a choice, raise your anger to 18% and make the choice and commit to it. For a while at least.

Experiment TRSKILLS.21: Consciously Use Your Power of Declaring

Practice consciously using your power of declaration by declaring to your circle what you are. 'I am a memetic engineer.' 'I am a mid-wife of edgeworkers.' 'I am a witch.' 'I am psychic.' 'I am a gameworld alchemist.'

Then you have to prove it.

Use your power of declaration to put yourself in a place where your Bright Principles, your Archetypal Lineage, and your Being have necessity to come through no matter what. No matter how your Box and Gremlin are trying to sabotage you.

Take a risk! What could happen? Maybe that it works...

Experiment TRSKILLS.22: Carry a watch. Buy a watch and wear it. How can you be responsible for time if you don't know what time it is? Your phone is not your watch, it contains too many distraction and brings in the gameworld of technology into your space. Asking someone else for time is giving your responsibility away. Buy a damn watch!

Experiment TRSKILLS.23: Be a Time Maker.

Experiment TRSKILLS.24: Moving Faster Than the Speed of Time or 'Whizzbang'.

Next time you clean your bathroom, get an timer set for 8 min. Press start and GO! The only way you can do this is to turn your mind off and to just move faster than the speed of thinking. Do the next task, and the next task all under 8 min. It's ecstatic I promise!

If you want to spend more than 8 min cleaning your bathroom, and have no time to make your website, experiment, read your book, etc... then something else is really going on.

As a Trainer it is so crucial that you live on the New Map of Feelings and that you are USING your feelings for your everyday life, not simply talking about them. Talking about your feelings is Phase 1 of feelings work.

When you move to Phase 2 of feelings work, you don't lose Phase 1. Meaning something it is useful and necessary to talk about your feelings while you are feeling them. Sometimes...

Feelings are for handling things. Use conscious feelings for consciuosly handling things!

Emotions are for healing things. Use your conscious emotions for consciously engaging in Emotional Healing Processes.

Who says you can be a Possibilitator? Where does the Authority come from? The profession of Possibilitator is not on any tax form.

Your 4 feelings are your rocket fuel and one of the most extraordinary resources for fulfilling your destiny. They are one of the foundational resources for your other resources.

You have parts. Your parts want different things, sometimes those things contradict each other, enough to often drive you crazy.

That's why it is quite useful to distinguish between your different parts and get a grip on what they like and don't like and what are they like - what is their design. One of those part is your Box. Your Box is different from your Gremlin. Your Gremlin is the active part of you that will protect the Box at any cost. The Gremlin is active, the Box is passive. The Box is dead machine covered with reactionary buttons that when pushed reflexively behaves. Your Gremlin at that moment would then in addition attack the person who pushed the button.

Just Do It!

Your Trainer Website is not about you.

Your Trainer Website is about what you stand for, what you can make possible, your resources, and your Bright Principles.

How do you think people are going to find you if you don't put yourself out there?

You may need to do whatever Emotional Healing Processes are blocking you from Making Your Website.

Just Do Them!

Two reasons:

One, creating, maintaining, and replacing yourself as the main spaceholder in your own Possibility Team builds huge amount of matrix. Matrix to hold space, matrix to take feedback, matrix to invent, matrix to be responsible, matrix to go non linear, matrix to connect and keep connection, matrix to be the person who would navigate a Possibility for a year, two years, ....

Second, this is how you start building your real circle, the circle of people that your qualities of Being, your Bright Principles and your Archetypal Lineage are feeding. Building your circle happens one person at a time, one legend at a time, one Team/ Work-Talk / Workshop at a time. Those are the people who will come to your Expand The Box.

EXPERIMENT: Commit. Simply commit to start a Possibility Team in your living room - Online or Physical. If your commitment is authentic, it will start. Commit to be there each week, same time, same place - Thursday night 19.30 at this address or at this Zoom link.